Erectile Dysfunction?
Adam asked:
I am fit and healthy, and take good care of my body (don’t smoke/do drugs, play sport frequently, etc) and have a stable girlfriend.
Whenever we are in the mood and i begin to put a condom on though, my erection goes. I have had blowjobs and handjobs from her before and performed well, but when it comes to sex, it doesn’t work.
Is it erectile dysfunction? If not, what should i do?
I am fit and healthy, and take good care of my body (don’t smoke/do drugs, play sport frequently, etc) and have a stable girlfriend.
Whenever we are in the mood and i begin to put a condom on though, my erection goes. I have had blowjobs and handjobs from her before and performed well, but when it comes to sex, it doesn’t work.
Is it erectile dysfunction? If not, what should i do?
Tags: Condom, Erectile Dysfunction, Girlfriend
just become a transvestite buddy its too late for you.
If you are generally young, I wouldn’t believe its erectile dysfunction, more like sexual performance anxiety….
yes but its almost certainly psychological.try to relax more .you can try to have sex without a condom,have some other contraceptive or withdraw when you feel like ejaculating,see how it goes,if things donot improve go to a counsellor.
Probably not, perhaps some “performance anxiety”. Putting on a condom is so incredibly unerotic it has been wilting turgid members for decades.
Put on the condom sooner than “the moment” — like as part of foreplay.
On the other hand, it might not be the condom at all, but the vaginal intercourse that is unerotic to you. If that’s the case, start dating men.
Your gay or she’s ugly… or both.
I went through this with my boyfriend when we first started sleeping together. What we figured out it was was a mental block against using condoms. He had a hatred for condoms in his head and would subconsciously convince himself that it wasn’t going to feel good because he had a condom on and that condoms were uncomfortable, etc. Once he was aware of this, he would try to change his matter of thinking. The only real cure for us was to use other methods of birth control than condoms. We haven’t had a problem since. I think it was some sort of condom phobia!
Good luck!
The act of putting on a condom can bring on ED. Maybe you can start the act of putting on the condom and have her finish it…in other words, have her put it on for you. If you are in a monogamous relationship, and it is a matter of birth control, maybe you should consider another method. Or if you are worried about any STD you might have, go for a check-up to make sure and then ditch the condom…as long as you are faithful to one another and use another form of birth control…I think it will take care of your problem.
try not to be such a vagina : ^) hope this helps.
erectile dysfunction psychologically and physically. sounds like a little of both with you - psychologically condomphobia; physically -condom may be too tight.
what to do?
take some Stiff Nights and augment the erection with a cöckring◙
Jabril’s seal of approval on that!
Maybe it’s because you are thinking about it so much, worrying about it can cause that to happen. As soon as it comes to sex you get it into your head that it won’t work and it goes. Try relaxing and not thinking about it, picture things that arouse you, and pay attention your girlfriend and how much you love her! Just try not to worry and you should be ok, putting so much focus on something like that can be what causes it in the first place. If things don’t get going for you and it doesn’t help, talk to your doctor about it. I’m sure there’s something that can be done!
so they invented this new thing like back when cavemen were still around and its called VIAGRA buddy.
get some viagra